Cultural Bytes engages with research on information communication technology (ICT) users of low-income communities. This is run by Tricia Wang - me! My motivation is to better understand how low-income/under-served populations manage their social connections with a variety of practices. I bring attention to the ways that low-income users challenge, change, and innovate ICT usage patterns.  I focus on mobile populations, such as migrants and youth in Mexico, China and US.

The term “mobile” is beginning to take on new meaning.  Conventionally, a “mobile lifestyle” is associated with jet-setting corporate workers; however, a “mobile lifestyle” is also a way of life for migrants all around the world. Instead of taking airplanes, they walk. Instead of holding passports, they have no papers. Instead of staying in five star hotels, they stay anywhere they can. But for the first time, these new mobile workers, migrants, have access to the same digital networks and tools as elite mobile workers.

ICT tools enable people to create coherence between seemingly fragmented networks spread over greater distances.  In a more mobile society, we are seeing a new kind of mass movement of people—telecommuters to seasonal workers—in non-wartime conditions.  The reach of everyday life encompasses management of space.

These changes prompt new kinds of questions that allow us to grasp what mechanisms and ways of thinking make-up these new forms of mobility and connection. What social conditions may emerge? What practices become visible from the adaptation to older and how power and control is exerted. Conversely, what does immobility look like in a world that seems to be increasingly mobile? What are the various tiers of mobility and immobility? How do things stick, how do people capture moments, and how do places stay meaningful for communities?

These are the questions that I care about. Read about me here and about my research here. I would love to talk to you about your work so contact me!

When does something stop being a “technology”? The word technology is a loaded term that is full of futuristic newness— the information age, the network society, the post-industrial era—-all the hopes and fears of “modernity.” These thoughts swirled in my mind when my friend forwarded me Karen’s Leland’s column from The Huffington Post, Does Friendship Trump Technology?

In the article, she talks about how utility technicians accidentally cut the internet line to her house just as she was trying to get online to map directions to a meeting. She gets in her car and starts considering several options to get to an internet connection and then realizes that the quickest way to find directions was to actually use her cellphone to call her friend, who could then look up the direction online from her house. With her friend’s help, Leland gets to the meeting place early enough to even get a cup of coffee. Leland’s point is that friendship is more important than technology because in the end it was her friend who helped her, not the internet: “Technology is great, but a girl’s got to have friends.”

When I read this, i thought that it didn’t make any sense. Her friend fulfilled her role as a good “friend” through the use of technology. Her friend answered the phone call at an inconvienient hour, but nevertheless did so because Leland used her cellphone to wake up her good “friend.

Essentially Leland’s whole entire story could not have taken place without technology tools. To even get to her meeting, Leland is driving in a car that has an engine powered by an internal computer. To even reach her friend, Leland has to use the cellphone. For her friend to even process images, she has to find her glasses. For her friend to even give direction, she has to turn on her computer to get to mapquest (btw tell your girlfriend to use google maps - she can tell you traffic patterns and give you street view).

We can even look at it in another way - the stoplights that are programmed to direct the traffic that Leland is driving in, the coffee machine that makes her coffee, the cellphone towers that enables the calls through the electro-magnetic spectrum, the internet router her friend uses to get online - on and on. Anything and everything can be technological. The entire story is only possible with objects that create the space for the rich interaction that she has described.

Leland’s article points to one common way that technology is defined, as a new system or set of practices that are antithetical to human interaction, alienating people from friendship, love, and human touch. Technology (for Leland the unavailable internet) is seen as the anti-connector -  but the ironic part is that Leland uses technology to connect to her friend who could then connects online to connect her to the directions she needed to connect to her meeting.

Technology and human interaction are not mutually exclusive - we use tools to get things done. What if the article was titled, Does Friendship Trump Tools? Or Does Friendship Trump Cars? Or Does Friendship Trump Pencils? It just sounds ludicrous because it points to the illogical boundaries on what we define as “technological.”

Leland’s point that technology does not trump friendship also reveals an underlying fear that technology would even be in a place to trump friendship. Her statement is an affirmation that her friend was there for her when her technology failed her. Is this a new way of defining friendship? Who do we turn to when our technologies fail us in critical moments?

What I think is interesting in this article, is that it actually points to a discursive cultural change in the way that elites or let’s middle- to upper-class people think about cellphones - that it has become so integrated into their lives that it’s taken for granted now as a mundane tool - just like a car or pencil or eyeglasses. NOW That’s interesting!

So at what point is an object not a “technology” and just a mundane object? Well one way is to see how it is incorporated it into discourse.  In this article, the discourse of the cellphone is dis-associated from “technology” because it referred to as a non-technology.

Another way is to notice how images of technology are incorporated into our visual culture. Look at the way visual culture in music videos and movies reenact scenes of everyday life.   Do you notice when your favorite TV shows incorporates a pencil into the story - no because it is just a mundane object (unless the specific topic is about the pencil). For example, movies and music videos often show characters using cellphones as part of the interaction. I know that from a more mainstream cultural studies point of view this is usually interpreted as the selling of “coolness” - the selling of the need to consume a cellphone as part of a modern consumer. ok  - point taken and yes I agree.

However, another way to think about it is that many of the interactions cannot take place without the cellphone - and that speaks to the role of this technology as an everyday object that is assumed to be part of interaction  - as if only with the cellphone such interaction could be accomplished. It’s hard to imagine how Leland could’ve reached her friend from her car without the cellphone unless she did it telepathically.

The first time I actually thought that the cellphone may be a mundane technology for Americans or Westerners or middle- to upper-class users was when I was watching Rupaul’s Drag Race (part 6 episode 6) where the drag queens had to compete for the best impersonation of a female executive.

When the queens took to the runway, each of them had a different outfit with various tools to support their look   - such as a briefcase of files or glasses or purse. 3 out of the 4 contestants drag queens started their “Executive Realness” impersonation with a cellphone!  They pretended to be on an important business call.  The one who didn’t use the cellphone chose a briefcase as the stand in for “executiveness.” (oh and just in case you are curious, Phoebe, middle, was “excutive fabulousness.” A judge said that Rebecca Glasscock, far left,  looked like “Donald’s Trump next ex-wife.”)

So what’s the connection between Leland’s Huffington Post article and Rupaul’s Drag Race? The cellphone is mundane! From Leland’s post to Rupual’s drag queens - it’s just a part of the everyday - and who better than drag queens to exaggerate the everyday - the queens of impersonations are best at pulling out the mundane ways we re-enact power in a gendered way.

Ok Tricia so why is it so important to understand that the cellphone could now be considered mundane? In terms of my research with new technology users, it just reminds me how careful I need to be in what kind of assumptions I bring to my research, such as my research questions, analysis and conclusions. I live in a country where a cellphone may mean one thing - which I am saying may have become a mundane everyday tool - but I do research in other countries where the cell means an entirely different thing - a non-mundane tool.

Even with technologies that are not mundane - the researcher still needs to be aware of what that the tool means to her/him - but my point is that one has to work even harder to be self-reflective about the taken for granted ideas that we bring to our fieldsites or to the design process with technology that have become ordinarialized (yes I made that word up).

I think one of the consequences of technologies becoming everyday, is that it’s hard to think about its usage in a context entirely different from our own experience. That then leads to certain assumptions and hope about the role of the technology. I find that this is most problematic in technology projects that are tried in “developing” areas of the world. You have all these “first world” or Western funded NGO’s going into these impoverished regions “bringing” or “introducing” technology with the hopes that it will jump-start economic development in the region. I find myself cringing at these projects because one, there is already lot of criticism over the failure of technology-based development projects, but also because these projects are run by people who come from the US or Europe - where technology is used in a very socially and culturally specific context. What happens then is that these people think, “well the internet is helpful for me, so it will be helpful for others who won’t have it. Life for these people will be better with internet access.” I don’t dispute that people have more choices with access to more information, but access to information is sooo socially contexual that how information is then used, processed, fulfilled, interpreted, recycled, managed and mashed - is specific to each region/community/country and I it is too often that this is not considered.

Instead, technology for development projects tend to take a linear approach where the goal is to bring the community “up” and out of poverty. There are assumptions that quality of life is a uni-directional march towards modernity and the tools that come with it.

One way to get out of this trap is that I think researchers of technology use need to spend more time understanding the mundane among new users. This takes time. This it one of the roles of ethnography. The mundane is the everyday - the take for granted. If we can better understand the everyday, then we can better understand the role and meaning of new technologies, which then leads to the greater possibility of more relevant designs for new users in new-to-us markets.

Andy Orum most recent post, What sociologist Erving Goffman could tell us about social networking and Internet identity on O’Reilly Radar, has brought back graduate course work memories of reading the works of our dear 73rd President of the American Sociological Association.

Goffman is most famous for his work on presentation of one’s identity in American culture. He studied micro-personal interpersonal interactions and argued that people’s actions could be seen as a type of performance, making active choices to display one’s self to an audience (friends, co-workers and etc).

Oram find’s Goffman’s work

” rather distasteful…I don’t see my entire life as a performance and everyone around me as an audience. That seems to be just what Goffman wants me to do. (He calls this attitude his “dramaturgical perspective.”)”

I had the similar thoughts when I first read Goffman. But Oram redeems Goffman’s work by saying that he does provide some useful ways for thinking online internet identity. Read Oram’s blog post - he makes great connections to Yang’s book on the internet in China, The Power of the Internet in China: Citizen Activism Online.

I think that from an ethnographer’s point of view, the issue with Goffman is that his project was not to describe the world from an individual’s point of view, but rather to describe the social interaction that was taking place from his (Goffman’s) point of view. This means that fundamentally, his frameworks and theories will look from different from say Harold Garfinkel - an ethnomethodologist, who is concerned about understanding the world from the subject’s perspective. Goffman primarily relied on observation as his fieldwork method - that in itself should reveal his goals.

I wonder what would’ve happened if Goffman didn’t use the word “performance” to describe micro-interaction because that insinuates that we are all identity-making peons on a stage unengaged with our “real selves” (as if there was a real non-performing self), but rather just called it “gaming.” Games can take on a range of qualities from being collaborative to individualistic, from being playful to serious, and from being zero-sum to non-competitive. The stakes are always different depending on the game. Decisions are always being made. Perhaps “gaming” would’ve been a less condescending way to describe interpersonal interaction.

This is where Randall Collins comes in - another sociologist who is a Goffman’s fan - who takes Goffman’s work on interaction rituals and publishes a book that reframes GOffmans’ theory, Interaction Ritual Chains. What I like about Collin’s work is that it doesn’t make a judgement on the interaction - so a swinging SMS club to a bible study reading group can both be put on the same analytical plane - both are evidence of interactions that are attempting to increase social bonds.

Goffman’s and Collin’s work heavily informs Rich Ling’s work on the social uses of cellphones. His latest book was published in 2008. New Tech, New Ties: How Mobile Communication Is Reshaping Social Cohesion.

(UPDATE Nov. 24th, 2010 - I FINALLY READ RICH LING’s cover to cover and I wrote a book review - essentially I have some big concerns with his argument, methods, and cultural biases)

His central argument is that cellphones increase social cohesion. I like how Ling draws on Goffman’s and Collin’s work for his analysis. Ling’s methods ranged from interviews to participant observation.

One of the luxuries of Ling’s studies is that he is working in countries with exceptional cellphone coverage, stable governments, and responsive cellphone companies. While we are hearing reports of increased adoption of cellphone usage outside of Europe and the US  - I think we should be careful to make the jump to say that all around the world people are now becoming more connected with cellphones without any consideration of political and economic situations.  . 

One thing that I am observing in my field site in rural Mexico is that while youth are now the first owners of cellphones in their village, they are no longer using it or relying on it after their first year of ownership because they’ve become frustrated with the poor coverage and expensive costs. Rather, youth have switched over to IM’ing as their primary technology tool for maintaining and/or increasing their social connections.

This just goes to speak that mobiles are not where ALL the connections are at - and that it’s important to consider a variety of ICT tools when examining social uses of technology.

I just finished reading Rich Ling’s  New Tech, New Ties: How Mobile Communication Is Reshaping Social Cohesion. This  book is a lovely accumulation of the oeuvre of Ling’s research over the last decade. It is a healthy rain-forest of citations and unique connections between cellphones and sociological theory on interaction rituals. And if you don’t want to read thousands of pages of original Durkheim, Goffman, and Collins, Ling provides a GREAT summary of each theorist.

That being said, I have some major concerns with Ling’s latest book.

My concerns reflect a personal dialogue with myself that is getting louder as I prepare to enter into one year of continuous 24/7 fieldwork in China. This dialogue is about me making sure that I am as reflexive as possible about how I embed myself into my field site so as to avoid the concerns in Ling’s book that I outline below.

I find that there are few ethnographies about new ICTs that show the researcher being reflective about their position in the fieldsite. When I read danah boyd’s dissertation a few months ago, I was so delighted that she wrote about her deep and ongoing reflection about herself and her fieldwork. I hope that my review below shows why it is is important for ethnographers of ICTs to be  reflexive if you engage in deep ethnography of subjective, granular social interaction - which Ling did not do.

The interesting thing is that Rich Ling’s work was so invaluable to me  years in the early years of my research.  When the sociologists in my department laughed in my face when I told them that I research cellphones,  I found inspiration and validation in Ling’s research. I filled my office with his papers and his first book. Ling’s work was a reminder that someone else out there was a sociologist who talked about cellphones. 

This is all to say that Rich Ling has been an important intellectual partner from afar (even though he doesn’t know who I am). Ling’s work thing was the only one I could turn to when I wanted to leave academia (before I met Barry Brown). Barry then then introduced me to a world wide network of amazing researchers on the social use of cellphones, from his own work to Genevieve Bell to Alex Taylor to Richard Harper to Mimi Shelly and John Urry. So reading Ling’s latest book is quite a disappointment. It seems like he didn’t evolve as a researcher. This book amplifies all the problems of his papers and books instead of ameliorating them.  Nevertheless, I offer my critique below.

I question Ling’s main premise - that the mobile creates social cohesion. There are many other reasons why this book is questionable but my three biggest concerns are:


1) his sampling methodology
2) his over reliance on data that was obtained through primarily ethnographic participant observations
3) his elite normative assumptions of what makes a “successful” ritual of social cohesion

I worry that this book will be used by future ICT researchers use as a model in which to do research on tech use. I worry that non-qualitative researchers will think that this is good qualitative research OR that this is what all qualitative research looks like. This book has received a lot praise within the community and has won a lot of awards. For all the reasons I outline below, I don’t think his book serves as a good model for research.

Rather, I think this book is an excellent case study for what works and what doesn’t work — things like what kind of questions can be asked and what kind of methods are best for certain questions. Unfortunately, it’s a great case study for what happens when an ethnographer is not reflexive about their position in the field site.

Most worrisome to me is the way that Ling uses his own analysis to patrol how other communities use technologies. Researchers who are not conscious about class and culture may think that they can just make normative decisions of what counts as acceptable interaction. This is why I am so motivated about my own research - because if researchers only analyze how elite communities use technologies from their own elite position, then they’re going to produce analysis that reifies existing inequalities and assumptions about low-income and non-elite users.

1.) sampling methodology
Ling falls into the trap of sampling on the dependent variable: social cohesion.  So it goes like this - Ling was looking for data to prove that mobiles create social cohesion. He makes observations of mobiles creating social cohesion. Therefore, he concludes that mobile phones create social cohesion! He found what he was looking for - mobiles creating social cohesion! His methodological and analytical strategy makes no room for any other types of interactions or analysis because  his research design and methods to affirm an pre-determined outcome. 

2.) over-reliance on participant observation, limits of theoretical engagement
Most of Ling’s data is collected through casual participant observations of interaction in public places where he positioned himself as a witness within audible distance of callers. His participants did not know that they were being observed. He did not conduct follow up interviews with the co-present caller or the caller on the other end. He says that he “was not interested in the dialogue of the individuals” because he was more concerned with how [individuals] carried themselves in the situation” (19-20). It’s not the use of participant observation that is the problem, it’s that he used this method to answer his research question  - a question that needs subjective insight from BOTH callers on the context and content of interaction.

Ling assumes that all interactions are efforts to strengthen social cohesion. But he could never find out otherwise or even confirm. With his self-positioning as a witness to the interaction, he does not talk to either parties about the call afterwards. We can never ascertain the intent behind the interaction between the callers.

  • What of the subjective intentions of the talker?
  • What if the call was about information?
  • What if the call was a fight?
  • What if the caller felt obligated to take the call?
  • What if the caller was having a secret affair with someone?

We will never know the answers to these questions because Ling never asks them. Hopefully readers are clever enough to know that human interaction isn’t ALWAYS about social cohesion - even if it’s within strong ties.

Part of the problem that Ling runs against is the limitations of the theories he draws upon. Durkheimian theories and its offshoots are functional theories - they seek to explain how a society functions instead of how it changes over time. As such, Ling has provided a functional theory of mobile use. Functional theories are not any less valuable or valid than other types of theories about ICT use, but in a book that’s supposed to be new transformations, they aren’t as useful for accounting for CHANGE in ICT practices.


3) his elite normative assumptions of what makes a “successful” ritual of social cohesion
The issue that concerns me the most is Ling’s normative definitions of what rituals of social cohesion look like. This is made apparent through the story that he opens the book with on page 1 where he details the interaction with a plumber at his house in Oslo, Norway.

Ling describes a moment outside on the front porch of his house where he was bidding goodbye to several guests who had just spent the night. In the middle of this intimate farewell interaction, a plumber— that Ling had called— arrived. The plumber, whom Ling had never met before, was on his mobile phone as he walked up to the porch. The plumber stayed on his phone, walked past Ling and his house guests, gave Ling a “minimal nod” and then “stopped in the vestibule and took off his shoes—as common in Norway—and then continued down the hallway into the kitchen.” (1).

Ling says that “the plumber’s entrance disturbed the farewells” (1). He was offended that there was “no salutation, no handshake, no exchange of names. This was a breach. It was a failed ritual” (21).  Ling says that

“the entrance of the plumber was… an example of how mobile communication has interrupted the flow of normal co-present ritual interaction. There was not the normal greeting we expect when receiving visitors into our home.”


Ling’s story reveals a lot more about social anxieties around technology use as it intersects with class and culture than it does about Ling’s argument of social cohesion. This interaction is a collision of Ling’s and the plumber’s differing cultural and class expectations. Ling, an international elite researcher, calls the plumber, a working-class local Norwegian plumber in Norway. The plumber is not on the same equal social standing as Ling’s house guests. Ling, a cosmopolitan researcher, has a different set of expectations for rituals of social cohesion.

Back in the early 20th century when landline telephones were first introduced in the US, AT&T and other phone companies created etiquette instruction booklets on the “proper” uses of the telephone. These booklets warned males against being too loud and to avoid the use of curse words that female telephone operators could over hear. Women were admonished for initiating phone calls to men, initiating new anxieties for mothers around the country. While the examples I have given speak to concerns around gender boundaries, Ling’s story essentially echoes the same concerns but in regards to class.  

Did Ling ever consider that the plumber only saw himself as a “hired worker” to accomplish a task? It is likely that the plumber didn’t see himself as a “visitor” but as a hired service worker.  A service worker is not the same as a house guest visitor. The interactions are different because the hired service worker and houses guests are embedded in different structural socio-economic positions. 

Ethnographies of class and social interaction have illustrated the vast number of ways normative expectations of social behavior map onto class positions. Elites from higher-income stratas, institutions, or social status often patrol, surveil, and regulate the ways non-elites interact with institutions, use technologies, and interact in everyday life. Sociological researchers have documented time and time again (to name a few Pierre Bourdieu, Paul Willis, Paul Gilroy, Carol Stack, Michael Dunnier, Annette Lareau, Michelle Lamont) that when working class people interact with those they perceive to be in a higher-income or social status bracket, working-class people behave in different ways and are often not comfortable in these situations. One behavior is to to retreat into the background and to make one’s self as invisible as possible so as to not disturb a situation. By giving just a minimal nod before walking in, the plumber may have doing exactly this - trying to avoid disrupting the intimate social conversation between Ling and his house guests!

  • What if the plumber felt uncomfortable and unsure about how to interact at that moment?
  • What if he saw all those people on the porch and felt anxiety about disrupting a ritual interaction?
  • If is possible that the plumber realized this to be an important “ritual” that he didn’t want to interrupt? 

Or what if the plumber saw all the people on the porch and didn’t know who lived at the house? Who made the call for him to come? This is very likely considering that Ling says he had never met the plumber before, the door was open, and there were several people on the porch.

So what if Ling is the one who failed at a ritual interaction - what if he didn’t make himself known as the person who called the plumber? What if Ling misread the interaction and the plumber was giving a general nod to everyone on the porch? 

And what does it say about Ling who didn’t stop the plumber to say, “hey, are you the plumber? I’m the one who called. I live here.” Ling’s annoyance seems very passive-aggressive to me.

Essentially, what if Ling failed to understand local Norwegian culture?  In talking with my  Norwegian and Swedish friends, they have said that of all the Scandinavian countries, Norway is known to be the “least cultured.” This is not to say that they actually are, but among popular discourse and history - that is a stereotype. Norway was not a wealthy country until the last few decades when oil was discovered. The government was very smart about investing this money in tourism and social security for every Norwegian citizen. But the stereotype still holds that Norwegians are notorious for lacking what the French and Austrians would call “good manners.” Norway is also know for their strong working class culture and for having one of the strongest communal cultures. It is said that they emphasize the task to be accomplished over small talk or any interaction that gets in the way of getting the work done. If what my Northern Europeans friends have told me about Norway is more or less the case, than the interaction Ling described with the plumber is quite reflective of Norwegian cultural norms.

Another possibility is that  has nothing to with the cellphone but is instead a story of deep user experience. Haven’t you been so immersed in a book or the confusion of instructions - that you lost track of what was going on around you?


Now it is also just as likely that this was less about class etiquette than the plumber’s subjective priorities. The subject of the call could’ve been about the work. What if the plumber was obtaining crucial information to fix Ling’s pipes at the time he stepped into the frame? While Ling does consider this possibility he sees it as a matter of social cohesion, not of socio-economic priorities to fulfill a job.

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So hey Rich what was plugged up in your house that got you so anxious about the plumber? Did one of the house guests over-use your toilet? Maybe that was why you were so sensitive to the plumber? So did the plumber fix it? How was the interaction afterwards?  Were you so annoyed that the plumber sensed your annoyance, got embarrassed, and that just made the whole interaction sour and beyond rescue?

I am curious about how you handled the interaction afterwards. I wonder if you just didn’t say anything about it to the plumber at that moment only to years or months later write about this frustrating moment as the intro to your book - to essentially tell the world that this “naive” Norwegian plumber failed at a social ritual.
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REFLEXIVITY
My concerns point to several issues that all ethnographers encounter in the field - their own position in it and their relation to all their participants.  This is why reflexivity is super important. I would’ve loved for Ling to reflect more upon his own position in his work. This would’ve helped Ling account for his normative assumptions. There is no acknowledgment that the views he holds are partial and situated.

Because Ling does not engage in self-reflexivity of his own situated view, Ling allows his  normative expectations of a “normal greeting”  to cloud his analysis. When the plumber “fails” the ritual, Ling attributes this “awkward” social interaction to the plumber prioritizing his own mobile conversation over the co-present interaction with Ling.  Ling assumes that the plumber was solidifying a close social tie at the expense of the co-present interaction with Ling. It appears that Ling was projecting his own argument about mobiles onto the plumber.

Did Ling bother to talk to the plumber about this afterwards to find out the nature of the mobile phone call?  What Ling attributes to lack of social manners of “flawed etiquette” (21), is a possible social collision of globalization where people of different classes, backgrounds, nationalities, subjectivites are thrown together.  

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SOCIOLOGY and CELLPHONES

Now that the field of sociology is finally coming to realize that “society” uses digital tools - they are scrambling to find ways to analyze their recent discovery. Unfortunately many of them keep going back to the same old European scholars who were trying to make sense of a world in the 1800-1900’s (!). 

After years of sociology classes, I got tired of  writing about cellphones within the context of dead sociologists. There are limits to all theories, especially those that were written in a completely different era (industrial). though my department has urged me to publish my papers on cellphones and Marxian, Weberian, and Durkheimian  theory,  I chose not to. Instead I just make them available for download on my website because those papers were not based on thorough qualitative research. Because I had never been one for writing ungrounded theory papers, they felt more like writing exercises for me.

But it appears that Ling has found a lot of fans by grooming his data for the world of sociology. 

So here’s a lesson -  if you want to study cellphones and be loved by sociologists, here are are some book ideas and dissertations that might be embraced by a sociology department:

  • cellphones are a form of alienation - Marx!
  • cellphones tap into the collective concious - Durkheim!
  • cellphones aren’t about class - they are about social status- Weber!
  • cellphones allow for sociation - Simmel!
  • cellphones create anomie - Durkheim!
  • cellphones destroy primary ties of community (gemeniscaft), not loose ties of society (gesellschaft)  - Tonnies!